Threesome Rules to Follow

Threesome is a sensitive, but very attractive topic. You may think threesome is just for the minority. However, there's a survey shows that one in seven American has had a three way and one in five finds it appealing. Threesome is fancied by more people than you imagine. Nonetheless, threesome must be performed properly and discreetly, or you may wreck a friendship or even marriage. The form of the threesome is quite varying. Compared to a regular threesome which is composed of a couple and a single man or woman, there are a few special forms that are welcomed by more and more, such as a couple and a transgender man or transgender woman, a couple and a cis man or crossdressing man, or three transgenders. Today, we are offering some tips and rules which should be put into much attention before a real threesome.

What is your motivation?
Are you looking for the sex? Or are you looking for some spice in your marriage? What else is influencing your decision? Are you worried about your partner is losing interest? Is the relationship going stale? In other words, you must find out the reasons or the motivations for your needs of having a threesome.

Are you prepared for jealousy?
In a threesome, it could be in the form of one couple and a trans man, one couple and a trans woman, or three singles. It often leads to complicated dynamics and emotions. Jealousy is inevitable, especially for couples. It can cause permanent damage to your relationship or marriage. For example, if you are not prepared for it, a wife could blame the husband for giving much intimacy to the third party. Or the husband could be angry that his wife is taken by another man. What's more, the third party could feel neglected by the couple. Threesome is much more complicated than you think. Fully preparation is required if you want the threesome experience to be unforgettable.

Have you really talked about it?
This issue is vital especially when it comes to a couple. Welcome a third party into your sex life is a bold move. Are you both interested? Are you both will be okay watching each other being taken by another one? Is this what you want? Have a talk before the action. Make sure that you are on the same page. You much be honest with your feelings and with each other. Do not try to make concession to the other because he/she really wants it. After everything is cleared, discuss how to perform. You would better practice it in your head before to prevent any awkwardness. You don't want to make each other uncomfortable. Talk about what you want and what is forbidden. No matter the third one is a trans man, trans woman, crossdressing man or just a regular one, you all need to sit down and set ground rules and make sure everyone is clear.