Bob and I met on a hookup kinky couples app. I know it is a hookup app, but I also know that there are many people on it looking for true love as well and I am one of them. The line between pure hookup apps and serious relationship threesome app is quite vague. Such as tinder, can you say it is a pure hookup app or a serious relationship kinky couples app. It can be both for different people, so when Bob told me that he thought I knew he was just into hookups since we are both in a swingers app, I didn’t understand him. We had different understanding on dating apps. Plus, in my own perspective, even if a person who only wants to hookup with someone won’t say no if the right person come along. You can tell me that I am not the right person for you, but blaming me for misunderstanding your expectations, sorry, I think it is your job to tell me that.
Bob is a very cute and nice person. When I firstly saw him on that kinky couples app, I swiped left. That means I like him. I was matched to him right away. After a few minutes, I received a message from him. He was very humorous and kind. A person like him is really not a hookup material. I had my first misunderstanding of him before we even met each other.
We talked a lot and we would talk to each other every day. During that week, the first thing I did when I woke up was to check him message. He would always say “morning” to me when he got up. “Good night” was also a must every night before I went to sleep. A week later, he asked me out, didn’t mention anything about tinder for couples dating, but still, he managed to get me into bed with him. I had the least suspicious that he was just looking for hookups. After that night, we slept with each other for several times more, until I found that I was not the only girl he has been sleeping with. When I realized that, I found I have already fall too much into him.
One night, he asked me to come over to his apartment again. I went. When I was taking a shower, I saw a girl’s pants hanging in his bathroom. I was totally shocked. I brought it to him and questioned him. He acted like he didn’t do anything. I thought we were in a relationship and he told me that we were just sexual friends and I was not the only one for him. He thought I knew that. How could I know! I left him house speechless.